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🎯 Is Perfectionism a Kind of Illness?

'One part of the mind promises the other that the completion of the next task will finally usher in peace.' A five-minute animated video essay from The School of Life arguing that those of us who pursue perfectionism are not driven but, in fact, unwell β€” hoping to feel acceptable, with wor

'One part of the mind promises the other that the completion of the next task will finally usher in peace.' A five-minute animated video essay from The School of Life arguing that those of us who pursue perfectionism are not driven but, in fact, unwell β€” hoping to feel acceptable, with work as the medium through which we strive to become tolerable in our own eyes. The suggestion: healthy self-esteem would see us work for pleasure rather than validation, and enjoy periods of laziness without guilt.

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