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📵 Phones and Gatherings

'When does one person's desire to document their life interfere with another's preference for privacy? How does one person pulling out their phone impact another guest's experience of the gathering itself?' Priya Parker is known for her wisdom on the art of organising social gatherings. He

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29 October 2023 · 1 minute

Practical advice for phone etiquette at social gatherings

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'When does one person's desire to document their life interfere with another's preference for privacy? How does one person pulling out their phone impact another guest's experience of the gathering itself?' Priya Parker is known for her wisdom on the art of organising social gatherings. Here she offers five questions for cultivating a more intentional relationship with technology when we gather — and the answer, she's clear, is not always just a blanket 'tech-free' rule.

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