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⛏️ The Mana of Digging a Grave

In Aotearoa New Zealand, tangi are traditional Māori funerals that mix deep ceremony with everyday acts of service. What starts as Liam Rātana's memory of digging his first grave becomes a meditation on the physical, emotional and cultural weight of the role — a window into tikanga around

The mana of digging a grave

In Aotearoa New Zealand, tangi are traditional Māori funerals that mix deep ceremony with everyday acts of service. What starts as Liam Rātana's memory of digging his first grave becomes a meditation on the physical, emotional and cultural weight of the role — a window into tikanga around death, and a tender exploration of intergenerational learning, grief and belonging. There's mana in the mud, and dignity in the dig.

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Danu Poyner

Danu is a writer and founder of Grokkist, a learning community in the deepest sense. His work centres on coherence, curiosity, and helping people make sense of themselves in relation to ideas, experience, and one another.

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