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Love isn't just about finding the right person, but about learning to live more fully with yourself and the world you create together. Chusana Prasertkul traces the arc of her 17-year relationship — from falling for her partner's soul, to discovering her own, to shaping a shared life that

Danu Poyner

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When we hug, we build a house
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Love isn't just about finding the right person, but about learning to live more fully with yourself and the world you create together. Chusana Prasertkul traces the arc of her 17-year relationship — from falling for her partner's soul, to discovering her own, to shaping a shared life that has weathered estrangements and reconciliations. A tender study of love as a trilogy of systems, personal and societal. 'When the storms come… you shelter each other.'

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Danu is a writer and founder of Grokkist, a learning community in the deepest sense. His work centres on coherence, curiosity, and helping people make sense of themselves in relation to ideas, experience, and one another.

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