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Navigating the passing of a loved one with estate planning lawyer and author Robert Kabacy | S2E9

Danu Poyner

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Navigating the passing of a loved one with estate planning lawyer and author Robert Kabacy | S2E9

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Key Topics

Navigating the dynamics of death, grief and loss, from brain fog to finding a sense of control. Arguing over estates and why 70% of people don't make plans for what happens after they die. Explaining the mechanics of probate with a story about picking berries. Being a stage magician and how magic helps with storytelling. What we can learn from near-death experiences. Why patience matters in law as well as in marriage. Swimming and mindfulness.

Recorded 6 May 2022

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Episode appetiser - The emotions behind disputes over estates (31 sec)

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Robert explains what probate is to a 10 year old (59 sec)

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The life changing learning experience that Robert would gift someone (59 sec)

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How Robert includes magic in estate planning presentations (22 sec)

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How the loss of his mother inspired Robert to write his book (59 sec)

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About Robert Kabacy

Robert Kabacy has been a lawyer in the estate planning and wealth transfer industries for more than twenty-five years. He grew up in the small town of Canby, Oregon, where he was a competitive swimmer. He attended law school to pursue his passion of helping others navigate a complicated legal and tax world and has an uncanny ability to explain complicated concepts in an easy-to-understand format. About Me is a result of the passing of his mother and experiencing firsthand the difficulty of losing a loved one while navigating the mechanics that go with it. He enjoys reading, stage/parlor magic, and outdoor activities. He still swims almost daily (though no longer competitively). Learn more at robertkabacy.com.

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