“Don’t ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive, and go do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.” — Howard Thurman
As a grokkist, you’ve accumulated so much—knowledge, wisdom, experience—and yet there’s often a voice that asks, “Do I really have anything to offer?”
It sneaks in when you see others shining, and you wonder whether you can match their energy. Maybe people have told you that you’re full of potential, that you have something special inside. But instead of inspiring you, it can feel like an expectation you haven’t quite lived up to.
That’s not what this is about. You don’t need to prove your worth by showing how much you can do, or measure yourself against anyone else’s gifts.
You don’t need to prove your worth by showing how much you can do, or measure yourself against anyone else’s gifts.
There’s no expectation to live up to something.
There’s only an invitation to live into what sparks your curiosity and care, trusting that what lights you up has a place in the world.
We’re often asked to commodify ourselves—our time, creativity, and energy—leading us to believe that our value is tied to what we produce. But the truth is: you don’t need to be useful to be valuable.
In a world that too often rewards bullshit and slick surfaces, true contribution is a radical act. It’s about showing up sincerely for what you care about. You’re not here to perform. You’re not a product.
You might wonder, “What do I do with all this light inside me?”
The answer isn’t to do something with it. The answer is to be it. Let yourself be seen, without expectations. Just by showing up as your true self, you’re already contributing more than you know.
You might wonder, “What do I do with all this light inside me?” The answer isn’t to do something with it. The answer is to be it.
What lights you up? The moments when you feel most alive—that’s where your contribution lies.
When you share what ignites you, you don’t just lift yourself up; you spark something in others. It’s a kind of mutual exchange, where nobody has to give anything up and no one needs to be diminished. Your joy becomes contagious, your curiosity invites curiosity, and your openness deepens the connection.
And when others catch your spark, they reflect it back, amplifying what you’ve given.
Being a contribution moves beyond ego. It’s not about gaining power, recognition, or winning points. It’s about contributing in a way that makes space for others to shine, too. That’s what makes it both deeply personal and profoundly collective. Even the quietest contribution creates ripples that move the whole group forward.
It’s a bit like coddiwompling with others—moving together, in all your uniqueness, toward something unknown but extraordinary.
What spark are you holding that the world might be waiting to catch?
When have you felt most alive, and what could it mean to bring more of that into your everyday?
How might you show up if there were no need to prove yourself?
How might your contribution grow if you let go of needing to see the result?
Contributing Through Empathy
In this Still Curious episode, Kendra shares how her “empathy sandbox” became her superpower, helping her connect with others by setting aside ego and stepping into their shoes. It’s a candid look at how to build the support structures we need to thrive authentically, even when the world doesn’t always accommodate us. If you’re curious about contributing meaningfully while resisting conformity, this conversation is for you. It’s about sharing your light and making space for others to thrive.
Danu Poyner
Explore further
If exploring the depths of your unique potential and being a contribution resonates with you, Unlock Your Grok might be your next step. It’s not a course you pass or fail—there’s no rigid formula to follow. Instead, it’s a guided experience that helps you discover how all the parts of you come together to create something powerful. Whether you’re figuring out how to contribute in ways that feel right to you or learning how to show up more fully, Unlock Your Grok offers the space to explore those possibilities in relationship, at your own pace and in your own way.
Danu Poyner